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Table talk and etiquette

Tarabish is a game of partners who can't tell each other what they're holding. The rules about talking exist to protect that. Here's what they mean in practice.

The rule

You can talk about anything you like while you play, except the game itself. That means no discussing the cards that were played, the cards you hold, the cards you think someone else holds, and no hints toward any of it. If an opponent catches you, your team is bait.

What counts

  • "I'm out of hearts" or "that's a nice trump."
  • "I wish I had one more spade."
  • Sighs, groans and long pauses that tell your partner something.
  • Calling Bella on the first of the King and Queen. That tells the table what you're holding.

It's not just words. Anything that passes information to your partner counts, which is why experienced players keep a straight face and a steady pace.

What's fine

  • Teasing the other team.
  • Asking about someone's week, someone's dog, or the weather.
  • Cheering a good hand once it's over.
  • Announcing the score.

Small habits that help

  • Keep your tricks tidy and face down. You may look at the last completed trick, but nothing before it. Once a trick is turned over, it's done.
  • Call your runs and Bella at the right time. See Runs and Bella.
  • Don't coach. If your partner is about to make a mistake, let them. That's part of the game too.
  • Own your misplays. If you fail to follow suit or to beat a trump when you could have, say so. It's called a misplay or a renege, and if it's proven the points go to the team that caught it.
WHY IT MATTERS

The whole game depends on partners reading each other through the cards they play, not through anything said. Keep the talk about the weather and the table stays honest.

Enough reading. Deal one.

Nothing teaches Tarabish like a hand or two.